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3.9ctw Contrasting Color Sapphire Bypass Statement You and Me Ring 14K Gold
3.9ctw Contrasting Color Sapphire Bypass Statement You and Me Ring 14K Gold

3.9ctw Contrasting Color Sapphire Bypass Statement You and Me Ring 14K Gold

By Aurora Designer

Located in Osprey, FL

♥ Solid 14K yellow gold open-end bypass style ring featuring two color contrasting pear-shaped sapphires ♥ Toi et Moi (You and Me) style ring ring can stretch slightly to fit up to...

Category

2010s American Contemporary Engagement Rings

Materials

Sapphire, 14k Gold, Yellow Gold

2.05 carat “vibrant” red, no-heat Mozambican Ruby and D IF Marquise Diamond Ring
2.05 carat “vibrant” red, no-heat Mozambican Ruby and D IF Marquise Diamond Ring

2.05 carat “vibrant” red, no-heat Mozambican Ruby and D IF Marquise Diamond Ring

By SONYA K.

Located in Brooklyn, NY

Award-winning masterwork of rarity and refinement.
 This toi et moi ring from the Passion & Strength collection received dual recognition in the Evening Wear category of the 2024...

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21st Century and Contemporary American Modern Cocktail Rings

Materials

Diamond, Ruby, 18k Gold, White Gold

4 Cts Emerald Cut Mint Green Tourmaline Pair Gemstone for Jewellery 11mm
4 Cts Emerald Cut Mint Green Tourmaline Pair Gemstone for Jewellery 11mm

4 Cts Emerald Cut Mint Green Tourmaline Pair Gemstone for Jewellery 11mm

Located in Peshawar, PK

Ideal Jewelry Uses: * Luxury Earrings * Matching Pendant Sets * Toi et Moi Rings * Custom Fine Jewelry * Collector Gemstone Pair

Category

2010s Loose Gemstones

Materials

Tourmaline

Lab Diamond Ring Solid 14k Yellow Gold Designer Jewelry Women Stacking Ring
Lab Diamond Ring Solid 14k Yellow Gold Designer Jewelry Women Stacking Ring

Lab Diamond Ring Solid 14k Yellow Gold Designer Jewelry Women Stacking Ring

Located in Jaipur, IN

This 18K yellow gold "Toi et Moi" open-shank ring features two vibrant, pear-cut blue lab diamonds positioned in a modern open-ended layout.

Category

2010s Indian Art Deco Engagement Rings

Materials

Diamond, Gold, 14k Gold, Yellow Gold

14K Yellow Gold Round Cut Diamond Double Row Heart Ring
14K Yellow Gold Round Cut Diamond Double Row Heart Ring

14K Yellow Gold Round Cut Diamond Double Row Heart Ring

Located in Antwerp, BE

Its airy, layered silhouette offers a modern twist on the classic "Toi et Moi" (You and Me) style, making it a perfect symbolic gift for a loved one or a whimsical addition to a cont...

Category

2010s Indian Contemporary Fashion Rings

Materials

Diamond, 14k Gold, Yellow Gold

Two Heart Engagement Ring Sapphires 18K White Gold
Two Heart Engagement Ring Sapphires 18K White Gold

Two Heart Engagement Ring Sapphires 18K White Gold

By Emeralds Maravellous

Located in Brunswick, ME

Toi et Moi (You and Me) engagement ring features a pair of romantic, heart-shaped sapphires weighing a combined 1.10 carats, beautifully set in premium 18k white gold.

Category

21st Century and Contemporary American Contemporary Engagement Rings

Materials

Pink Sapphire, Blue Sapphire, Sapphire, 18k Gold, White Gold

14K White Gold Round Cut Diamond Double Row Heart Ring
14K White Gold Round Cut Diamond Double Row Heart Ring

14K White Gold Round Cut Diamond Double Row Heart Ring

Located in Antwerp, BE

Its airy, layered silhouette offers a modern twist on the classic "Toi et Moi" (You and Me) style, making it a perfect symbolic gift for a loved one or a whimsical addition to a cont...

Category

2010s Indian Contemporary Fashion Rings

Materials

Diamond, 14k Gold, White Gold

Solid 14k Yellow Gold Jewelry Lab Diamond Ring Stacking Dainty Minimalist Ring
Solid 14k Yellow Gold Jewelry Lab Diamond Ring Stacking Dainty Minimalist Ring

Solid 14k Yellow Gold Jewelry Lab Diamond Ring Stacking Dainty Minimalist Ring

Located in Jaipur, IN

Details:- Item Code :-LRIMJOS-004 Material - 14K Solid Yellow Gold Diamond Weight - 0.58 Carat Diamond - Lab Grown Diamond Gross Weight - 2.13 Grams Net Weight - 2.01 Grams Design ...

Category

2010s Indian Art Deco Engagement Rings

Materials

Diamond, Gold, 14k Gold, Yellow Gold

Tiffany & Co. GIA Report Certified 2.07 Carat Diamond Emerald Engagement Ring
Tiffany & Co. GIA Report Certified 2.07 Carat Diamond Emerald Engagement Ring

Tiffany & Co. GIA Report Certified 2.07 Carat Diamond Emerald Engagement Ring

By Tiffany & Co.

Located in Santa Barbara, CA

A heady heirloom, this authentic Art Deco Tiffany & Co. emerald and diamond Toi et Moi ring is breathtakingly beautiful. From the French for "You and Me" gemstones are engaged in...

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Early 20th Century Art Deco Wedding Rings

Materials

Diamond, White Diamond, Emerald, Platinum

Hugging Eternity Ring, White Gold
Hugging Eternity Ring, White Gold

Hugging Eternity Ring, White Gold

By SONYA K.

Located in Brooklyn, NY

This ring was designed to work with our Stackable Rings and Toi et Moi Rings and will be the perfect addition of sparkle to your look.

Category

21st Century and Contemporary American Contemporary Fashion Rings

Materials

18k Gold, White Gold

Antique 18k solid gold engagement ring - Edwardian Natural five diamond ring
Antique 18k solid gold engagement ring - Edwardian Natural five diamond ring

Antique 18k solid gold engagement ring - Edwardian Natural five diamond ring

Located in Antwerp, BE

We are delighted to introduce you to this extraordinary ring, crafted in 18 karat yellow gold and finished with white rhodium, like mostly done with antique rings crafted around this...

Category

Early 20th Century Edwardian Engagement Rings

Materials

Diamond, Gold, 18k Gold, Yellow Gold

Vintage White South Sea & Black Tahitian Pearl Drop Earrings, 18K White Gold
Vintage White South Sea & Black Tahitian Pearl Drop Earrings, 18K White Gold

Vintage White South Sea & Black Tahitian Pearl Drop Earrings, 18K White Gold

Located in Marcianise, IT

An exceptionally romantic and highly sophisticated pair of vintage "Toi et Moi" (You and Me) pendant drop earrings crafted in solid 18-karat white gold.

Category

Vintage 1980s Italian Artisan Drop Earrings

Materials

Diamond, Pearl, South Sea Pearl, 18k Gold, White Gold

Alexander Beverly Hills 5.21ct Emerald & Diamond Bypass Ring 18k White Gold
Alexander Beverly Hills 5.21ct Emerald & Diamond Bypass Ring 18k White Gold

Alexander Beverly Hills 5.21ct Emerald & Diamond Bypass Ring 18k White Gold

By Alexander Beverly Hills

Located in BEVERLY HILLS, CA

Stunning modern floating emerald and diamond toi et moi bypass ring. High jewelry by Alexander Beverly Hills. 6.38 carats total diamond weight. 2 pear emeralds, 5.21 carats apx F1/F2.

Category

21st Century and Contemporary American Contemporary Cocktail Rings

Materials

Diamond, White Diamond, Emerald, Gold, 18k Gold, White Gold

Alexander Beverly Hills 4.79ct Emerald & Diamond Bypass Ring 18k White Gold
Alexander Beverly Hills 4.79ct Emerald & Diamond Bypass Ring 18k White Gold

Alexander Beverly Hills 4.79ct Emerald & Diamond Bypass Ring 18k White Gold

By Alexander Beverly Hills

Located in BEVERLY HILLS, CA

Stunning modern floating emerald and diamond toi et moi bypass ring. High jewelry by Alexander Beverly Hills. 6.60 carats total diamond weight. 2 oval emeralds, 4.79 carats apx F2.

Category

21st Century and Contemporary American Contemporary Cocktail Rings

Materials

Diamond, White Diamond, Emerald, Gold, 18k Gold, White Gold

Alexander Beverly Hills GIA 6.33ct Emerald Minor & Diamond Bypass Ring 18k
Alexander Beverly Hills GIA 6.33ct Emerald Minor & Diamond Bypass Ring 18k

Alexander Beverly Hills GIA 6.33ct Emerald Minor & Diamond Bypass Ring 18k

By Alexander Beverly Hills

Located in BEVERLY HILLS, CA

Stunning modern floating emerald and diamond toi et moi bypass ring, GIA certified. High jewelry by Alexander Beverly Hills. 7.37 carats total diamond weight. 2 pear emeralds, 6.33 c...

Category

21st Century and Contemporary American Contemporary Cocktail Rings

Materials

Diamond, White Diamond, Emerald, Gold, 18k Gold, White Gold

14K Yellow Gold Oval Blue Topaz & Pavé Diamond Bypass Cocktail Ring
14K Yellow Gold Oval Blue Topaz & Pavé Diamond Bypass Cocktail Ring

14K Yellow Gold Oval Blue Topaz & Pavé Diamond Bypass Cocktail Ring

Located in Jaipur, IN

It creates what the French call "toi et moi" — you and I — a ring form that implies dialogue, duality, and the productive relationship between two distinct but complementary elements.

Category

2010s Indian Aesthetic Movement Cocktail Rings

Materials

Diamond, Topaz, Blue Topaz, 14k Gold, Yellow Gold

Suzy Levian Rose Sterling Silver White Topaz & Blue Topaz Two Stone Necklace
Suzy Levian Rose Sterling Silver White Topaz & Blue Topaz Two Stone Necklace

Suzy Levian Rose Sterling Silver White Topaz & Blue Topaz Two Stone Necklace

By Suzy Levian

Located in Great Neck, NY

French for "you and me", the Toi et Moi necklace symbolizes a perfect pairing of unique shapes.

Category

21st Century and Contemporary Chinese Contemporary Drop Necklaces

Materials

Topaz, Blue Topaz, Sterling Silver

Fancy Two Color 14K (or 18k upon request) Yellow Gold Pear Shape Diamond Ring
Fancy Two Color 14K (or 18k upon request) Yellow Gold Pear Shape Diamond Ring

Fancy Two Color 14K (or 18k upon request) Yellow Gold Pear Shape Diamond Ring

Located in Los Angeles, CA

A symbol of unity and love, this Toi et Moi ring features two pear-shaped diamonds in yellow and white gold.

Category

2010s American Modern Fashion Rings

Materials

Diamond, Gold, 14k Gold, Rose Gold, White Gold, Yellow Gold, Platinum

Antique 18k solid gold engagement ring - Natural diamond & pearl - Edwardian
Antique 18k solid gold engagement ring - Natural diamond & pearl - Edwardian

Antique 18k solid gold engagement ring - Natural diamond & pearl - Edwardian

Located in Antwerp, BE

We are delighted to introduce you to this extraordinary ring, crafted in 18 karat yellow gold and finished with white rhodium, like mostly done with antique rings crafted around this...

Category

Early 20th Century Edwardian Engagement Rings

Materials

Diamond, Pearl, Gold, 18k Gold, Yellow Gold

Art Deco 2.60 Ct Diamond Twist Platinum Ring
Art Deco 2.60 Ct Diamond Twist Platinum Ring

Art Deco 2.60 Ct Diamond Twist Platinum Ring

Located in Napoli, IT

Statement Ring This classy statement ring is Art Deco period, hand crafted as unique of solid Platinum Traditional twist ring featuring two Twin Diamonds one opposite to the other be...

Category

Vintage 1920s European Art Deco Engagement Rings

Materials

Diamond, Platinum

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Toi And Moi For Sale on 1stDibs

You are likely to find exactly the toi and moi you’re looking for on 1stDibs, as there is a broad range for sale. Frequently made of Gold, 18k Gold and Yellow Gold, this item was constructed with great care. Find an antique version now, or shop for 70 vintage or 34 modern creation for a more contemporary example of these cherished accessories. Finding the perfect toi and moi may mean sifting through those created during different time periods — you can find an early version that dates to the 19th Century and a newer variation that were made as recently as the 21st Century. For this particular piece, .5 Carat and 1 Carat are consistently popular carat weights. Finding an appealing toi and moi — no matter the origin — is easy, but Alberto, Ri Noor and Beyond Fine Jewelry each produced a popular version that is worth a look. A toi and moi can make for a versatile accessory, but a selection from our variety of 66 Diamond versions can add an especially stylish touch. Today, if you’re looking for a round cut version of this piece and are unable to find the perfect match, our selection also includes old european cut and pear cut alternatives. There aren’t many items for men if you’re seeking a toi and moi, as most of the options available are for women and unisex.

How Much is a Toi And Moi?

Prices for a toi and moi can differ depending upon size, time period and other attributes — at 1stDibs, these accessories begin at $608 and can go as high as $92,500, while this accessory, on average, fetches $3,945.

Why Gold Shines in Jewelry Craftsmanship

Gold is the feel-good metal, the serotonin of jewelry. Wear vintage and antique gold necklaces, watches, gold bracelets or gold rings and you feel happy, you feel dressed, you feel, well, yourself. 

Gold, especially yellow gold, with its rich patina and ancient pedigree going back thousands of years, is the steady standby, the well-mannered metal of choice. Any discussion of this lustrous metal comes down to a basic truth: Gold is elementary, my dear. Gold jewelry that couples the mystique of the metal with superb design and craftsmanship achieves the status of an enduring classic. Many luxury houses have given us some of our most treasured and lasting examples of gold jewelry over the years.

Since its founding, in 1837, Tiffany & Co. has built its reputation on its company jewelry as well as its coterie of boutique designers, which has included Jean Schlumberger, Donald Claflin, Angela Cummings and Elsa Peretti. There are numerous gold Tiffany classics worth citing. Some are accented with gemstones, but all stand out for their design and the workmanship displayed.

For the woman who prefers a minimalist look, the Tiffany & Co. twist bangle (thin, slightly ovoid) is stylishly simple. For Cummings devotees, signature pieces feature hard stone inlay, such as her pairs of gold ear clips inlaid with black jade (a play on the classic Chanel black and tan), or bangles whose design recalls ocean waves, with undulating lines of lapis lazuli and mother-of-pearl. And just about any design by the great Jean Schlumberger is by definition a classic.

Even had he eschewed stones and diamonds, Southern-born David Webb would be hailed for the vast arsenal of heavy gold jewelry he designed. Gold, usually hammered or textured in some manner, defines great David Webb jewelry. The self-taught jeweler made very au courant pieces while drawing inspiration from ancient and out-of-the-way sources — East meets West in the commanding gold necklaces made by Webb in the early 1970s. The same could be said for his endlessly varied gold cuffs.

In Europe, many houses have given us gold jewelry that sets the highest standard for excellence, pieces that were highly sought after when they were made and continue to be so. 

Numerous designs from Cartier are homages to gold. There are the classic Trinity rings, necklaces and bracelets — trifectas of yellow, white and rose gold. As a testament to the power of love, consider the endurance of the Cartier Love bracelet.

Aldo Cipullo, Cartier’s top in-house designer from the late 1960s into the early ’70s, made history in 1969 with the Love bracelet. Cipullo frequently said that the Love bracelet was born of a sleepless night contemplating a love affair gone wrong and his realization that “the only remnants he possessed of the romance were memories.” He distilled the urge to keep a loved one close into a slim 18-karat gold bangle. 

BVLGARI and its coin jewelry, gemme nummarie, hit the jackpot when the line launched in the 1960s. The line has been perennially popular. BVLGARI coin jewelry features ancient Greek and Roman coins embedded in striking gold mounts, usually hung on thick link necklaces of varying lengths. In the 1970s, BVLGARI introduced the Tubogas line, most often made in yellow gold. The Tubogas watches are classics, and then there is the Serpenti, the house's outstanding snake-themed watches and bracelets.

A collection called Monete that incorporated the gold coins is one of several iconic BVLGARI lines that debuted in the 1970s and ’80s, catering to a new generation of empowered women. Just as designers like Halston and Yves Saint Laurent were popularizing fuss-free ready-to-wear fashion for women on the go, BVLGARI offered jewels to be lived in

Since Van Cleef & Arpels opened its Place Vendôme doors in 1906, collection after collection of jewelry classics have enchanted the public. As predominantly expressed in a honeycomb of gold, there is the Ludo watch and accessories, circa the 1920s, and the golden Zip necklace, 1951, whose ingenious transformation of the traditional zipper was originally proposed by the Duchess of Windsor. Van Cleef's Alhambra, with its Moroccan motif, was introduced in 1968 and from the start its popularity pivoted on royalty and celebrity status. It remains one of VCA’s most popular and collected styles.

Mention must be made of Buccellati, whose name is synonymous with gold so finely spun that it suggests tapestry. The house’s many gold bracelets, typically embellished with a few or many diamonds, signified taste and distinction and are always in favor on the secondary market. Other important mid-20th-century houses known for their gold-themed jewelry include Hermès and Ilias Lalaounis.

Find a stunning collection of vintage and antique gold jewelry on 1stDibs.

The Legacy of Diamond in Jewelry Design

Antique diamond rings, diamond tiaras and dazzling vintage diamond earrings are on the wish lists of every lover of fine jewelry. And diamonds and diamond jewelry are primarily associated with storybook engagements and red-carpet grand entrances — indeed, this ultra-cherished gemstone has a dramatic history on its hands.

From “A Diamond Is Forever” to “Diamonds Are a Girl’s Best Friend,” pop culture has ingrained in our minds that diamonds are the most desired, the most lasting and the most valuable gemstone. But what makes the diamond so special? Each stone — whether it’s rubies, sapphires or another stone — is unique and important in its own right. April babies might claim diamonds for themselves, but just about everyone wants this kind of sparkle in their lives!

There are several factors that set diamonds apart from other stones, and these points are important to our gem education.

Diamonds are minerals. They are made up of almost entirely of carbon (carbon comprises 99.95 percent; the remainder consists of various trace elements). Diamonds are the hardest gemstones, ranking number 10 on the Mohs Hardness Scale. Even its name, diamond, is rooted in the Greek adamas, or unconquerable. The only object that can scratch a diamond is another diamond. Diamonds are formed deep within the earth at very high temperatures (1,652–2,372 degrees Fahrenheit at depths between 90 and 120 miles beneath the earth’s surface) and are carried up by volcanic activity. Diamonds are quite rare, according to the Gemological Institute of America, and only 30 percent of all the diamonds mined in the world are gem quality.

In the 1950s, the Gemological Institute of America developed the 4Cs grading system to classify diamonds: clarity, color, cut and carat weight. Not all diamonds are created equal (there are diamonds, and then there are diamonds). The value of the diamond depends on the clarity (flawless diamonds are very rare but a diamond's value decreases if there are many blemishes or inclusions), color (the less color the higher the grade), cut (how the diamond’s facets catch the light, certain cuts of diamonds show off the stone better than others) and carat weight (the bigger, the better).

When you start shopping for a diamond engagement ring, always prioritize the cut, which plays the largest role in the diamond's beauty (taking the time to clean your diamond ring at least every six months or so plays a role in maintaining said beauty). And on 1stDibs, a range of buying guides can be found for those in the market for antique engagement ringsvintage engagement rings or Art Deco engagement rings

Shop antique and vintage diamond rings, diamond necklaces and other extraordinary diamond jewelry on 1stDibs.  

Finding the Right Rings for You

Antique and vintage rings have long held a special place in the hearts of fine jewelry lovers all over the world.

No matter their origin or specific characteristics, rings are timeless, versatile accessories. They’ve carried deep meaning since at least the Middle Ages, when diamond rings symbolized strength and other kinds of rings were worn to signify romantic feelings or to denote an affiliation with a religious order. Rings have also forever been emblematic of eternity.

Over time, rings have frequently taken the form of serpents, which have long been associated with eternal life, health and renewal. Italian luxury jewelry house Bulgari has become famous for its widely loved Serpenti motif, for example, and its Serpenti ring, like the other accessories in the collection, began as an homage to jewelry of the Roman and Hellenistic eras. The serpent is now a popular motif in fine jewelry. Jewelry devotees have long pined for rings adorned with reptiles, thanks to antique Victorian rings — well, specifically, Queen Victoria’s illustrious engagement ring, which took the form of a gold snake set with rubies, diamonds and an emerald (her birthstone). Designs for Victorian-era engagement rings often featured repoussé work and chasing, in which patterns are hammered into the metal.

Engagement rings, which are reliably intimidating to shop for, are still widely recognized as symbols of love and commitment. On 1stDibs, a range of buying guides can be found for those in the market for antique engagement ringsvintage engagement rings or Art Deco engagement rings

The most collectible antique engagement rings and vintage engagement rings are those from the Victorian, Edwardian and Art Deco eras. Named for the monarchies of the four King Georges, who in succession ruled England starting in 1714 (plus King William’s reign), antique Georgian rings, be they engagement rings or otherwise, are also coveted by collectors. Pearls, along with colored gemstones like garnets, rubies and sapphires, were widely used in Georgian jewelry. The late-1700s paste jewelry was a predecessor to what we now call fashion or costume jewelry

The Art Nouveau movement (1880–1910) brought with it rings inspired by the natural world. Antique Art Nouveau rings might feature depictions of winged insects and fauna as well as women, who were simultaneously eroticized and romanticized, frequently with long flowing hair. Art Deco jewelry, on the other hand, which originated during the 1920s and ’30s, is by and large “white jewelry.” White metals, primarily platinum, were favored over yellow gold in the design of antique Art Deco rings and other accessories as well as geometric motifs, with women drawn to the era’s dazzling cocktail rings in particular.

Whether you’re hunting down a chunky classic for a Prohibition-themed cocktail party or seeking a clean contemporary design to complement your casual ensemble, find an exquisite collection of antique, new and vintage rings on 1stDibs.